**🧪 Kira 🦊** @tty@sunbeam.city · Nov 15, 2021, 01:41

**🧪 Kira 🦊** @tty@sunbeam.city · Nov 15, 2021, 01:41

🧪 Kira 🦊 @tty@sunbeam.city

abusive family patterns (trick)

There's a handy acronym that I've built for myself to help me spot toxic behaviours: DDLIM.

Denial
Dismissiveness
Lack of empathy
Ignoring
Minimizing

**cairn [do not jostle]** @Moss@friend.camp · Nov 15, 2021, 01:57

**cairn [do not jostle]** @Moss@friend.camp · Nov 15, 2021, 01:57

cairn [do not jostle] @Moss@friend.camp

abusive family patterns (trick)

@tty just showed the acronym to my wife who’s having these issues

**🧪 Kira 🦊** @tty@sunbeam.city · Nov 15, 2021, 02:14

**🧪 Kira 🦊** @tty@sunbeam.city · Nov 15, 2021, 02:14

🧪 Kira 🦊 @tty@sunbeam.city

abusive family patterns (trick)

@Moss agh I'm so sorry :(

**cairn [do not jostle]** @Moss@friend.camp · 2021-11-15T02:16:43Z

cairn [do not jostle] @Moss@friend.camp

abusive family patterns (trick)

@tty yeah, it’s tough but so far parents may be open to change