like is that just the moment where it gets real and they get freaked out?
@tripofmice like a grant process when you’re giving them money? Sometimes people want to sort out forming some kind of entity or, yah, as you say, they stressed
@Danielle yeah, when I'm giving out money. it's micro grants for getting name changes and IDs
@tripofmice I’m so excited to hear that you’re doing that!! Yeah, I bet some people need extra processing time, but I’d be surprised if any actually ghost you 💖
@Danielle yep, I usually just gently follow up a couple days later and they reply
@tripofmice Good on you. A friend of mine collected and distributed funds for a bunch of these just after the 2016 election. Are you just doing it solo?
@a nope, I'm volunteering through trans lifeline, so I don't have to find the money, juts give it away
@tripofmice Awesome. Thanks for your work.
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